tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post110496132271825640..comments2023-08-22T05:24:04.529-05:00Comments on ...United Moppets of Jerk Pork...: De Ongoin' OinkMelodyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17271981906103654797noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105412251536636972005-01-10T21:57:00.000-05:002005-01-10T21:57:00.000-05:00Afro (referring to hairdo & not to total ethnicity...Afro (referring to hairdo & not to total ethnicity) is as fashionable an option as any other. Total ethnicity/race isn't optional, but de proliferation ov bleachin' products and fervor ov usage suggests that many are still tryin' to opt out. True, Yammie, anybody who feels beautiful and presents that beauty will be recognized as a beautiful person. (Pity; those most at-risk from product abuse are never de ones to read this kinda stuff.)Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271981906103654797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105388167365174522005-01-10T15:16:00.000-05:002005-01-10T15:16:00.000-05:00well i'll take my afrocentric afro and sit in a co...well i'll take my afrocentric afro and sit in a corner by myself, celebrating.<br /><br />once you put yourself together well, you beautiful no matter what other people say.Yamfoothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03464547025337457993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105232773541345602005-01-08T20:06:00.000-05:002005-01-08T20:06:00.000-05:00Indeed, Mad Bull, de problem is universal. Psychol...Indeed, Mad Bull, de problem is universal. Psychologists theorize that next to proximity/prolinquity, de major catalyst to attraction is similar appearance. "People easily tend to be attracted to people who look like dem"--obviously, where Afro concerned, some other theory stronga than that one.Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271981906103654797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105197726756960952005-01-08T10:22:00.000-05:002005-01-08T10:22:00.000-05:00You are all talking as though its only in the Cari...You are all talking as though its only in the Caribbean that this occurs.... This mentality is alive and well in the U.S. too.... Check the bleaching creme companies where they sell the most products if you don't believe me, or read some of the black american magazine and read how the black women are always complaining that their men want the brownings, or worse, white women. Its a universal problem, people. I'm sure that it even obtains in Africa. Will it ever disappear? Dunno. Its just another challenge we face.<br /><br /><A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/r?http%3A%2F%2Fwww.madbull4.net%2Fweblog%2F">Mad Bull</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105066326219633552005-01-06T21:52:00.000-05:002005-01-06T21:52:00.000-05:00Lawd have mercy, indeed! :-(Lawd have mercy, indeed! :-(Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271981906103654797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105027610152911832005-01-06T11:06:00.000-05:002005-01-06T11:06:00.000-05:00its pretty sad but its a reality in the caribbean ...its pretty sad but its a reality in the caribbean that skin color is a big issue. remember this one old lady in her 70s or 80s when i was growing up got soe help from one of our local politicians, her comments were he is a real nice fella even though he so black. lawd ave mercyJdidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08493622796742761799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105025398260463712005-01-06T10:29:00.000-05:002005-01-06T10:29:00.000-05:00Scratchie, it makes mi wonder if people really wan...Scratchie, it makes mi wonder if people really want this to change. If we just could raise our children where irrelevant differences didn't create boundaries and hinder unity! As mi Grandma always said, "Looks disappear in de blink ov an eye. Good ways will last! A kind heart, open mind, and good ways!"<br />Sunshine, ah respect what you're sayin'. I've mostly been overlooked in J'can racial regard--not bein' de object ov those who target "brown/red," and not bein' de object ov those who target "black." Mi appearance didn't stand out sufficiently to meet either label, so ah didn't get de irrational plus/minus that either extreme would face; praise God! Still, so many have been labeled and hurt.<br />Dr. D, it must be hard to lecture against bleachin', when de abusers ov de products believe yu have an inherent advantage which undermines your credibility as a speaker. It's tedious, but it's probably heartenin' to know that if your message reaches just one person it'd be worth de effort.Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271981906103654797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105019205835787002005-01-06T08:46:00.000-05:002005-01-06T08:46:00.000-05:00Trus me, I tiyad a chat about this 'tall hair' and...Trus me, I tiyad a chat about this 'tall hair' and 'brown skin' issue. I have actaully done talks about the abuse of bleaching creams here.<br /><br />The poor girl will find a mate, she just needs to realize that her Afrocentricity is juat as beautiful as those of a lighter hue with 'pretty' hair!<br /><br />(I've had this discussion and been told by some that who am I to talk, as since I'm light skinned with 'pretty hair' I doh have a problem!)<A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/r?http%3A%2F%2Fwww.madbull4.net%2Ftestblog"> Dr. D. </A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1105015572995231772005-01-06T07:46:00.000-05:002005-01-06T07:46:00.000-05:00Hi Melody,
It seems to be an ongoing debate and ne...Hi Melody,<br />It seems to be an ongoing debate and never ending it would seem. It is unfortunate that for a region with such rich heritage and ethnic diversity, we hold the old slavery mentality aloft. I remember meeting someone a few years ago and her comment was that "..an im hair nice and have quality eh!" I was in awe because it was like any other hair to me and for all intents and purpose was a hell of lot more difficult to care for than how they say it looked. Mi well want to chop it off.<br /><br />What makes my hair or skin colour better or worse than yours? I have not gotten an answer in all my 39 (soon to be 40) years here. Maybe you guys can help. I really hope the young lady of whom you write changes her outlook.Scratchiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01651533314898887884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1104973451930861872005-01-05T20:04:00.000-05:002005-01-05T20:04:00.000-05:00That post sounds very interestin', Kami; I'm looki...That post sounds very interestin', Kami; I'm lookin' forward to it. :-)Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271981906103654797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9408295.post-1104968872721797082005-01-05T18:47:00.000-05:002005-01-05T18:47:00.000-05:00Unfortunately a lot of people still hung up on tha...Unfortunately a lot of people still hung up on that sort of thing.You know to be cute you have to have the good hair kinda thing.I actually started a blog post on this(will post it sometime) with some experiences I had re color.Abenihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08560160141820956066noreply@blogger.com